Top Ten Shows Worthy Of Screen Time

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We fully intended on being a non-television viewing family once our daughter was born. We made it through nearly 3 months. I didn’t want any “noise” in her world. I wanted to be truly with her 100% while I fed her and cared for her. I was unprepared for the reality of a newborn schedule, especially combined with my old mommy energy level.

The first time we indulged was very, very late one night and it was The Daily Show. I have never laughed so hard at that show. I enjoyed every moment, every joke, every bit of feeling connected to the world of smart grown-ups. So, that was her first television exposure. And we kept it to that, just enough to keep us awake and give us a few laughs, for a long time.

Eventually, we found a few shows that we really liked and that she responded to very well. We developed a standard and criteria for choosing what we would watch with her.
1. She would never, ever watch commercials. Even as an infant we didn’t want that in her world. We never believed she wasn’t listening or didn’t understand anyway.
2. She would never be left alone in front of the television. We always made sure to be there with her and “participate” with her. If there was music, we sang or danced with it. We laughed together…
3. We paid attention to the balance of “screen time” and outdoor time, nature time and interactive play, art and music. She was always read to and books are still her favorite things.
4. We look for shows that have some thing of quality to offer. What our daughter has gotten out of these shows is exposure to many different kinds of music, rhythms, art, storytelling and now that she’s old enough to understand the relationships between the friends, she’s learning about social interaction.
5. Bonus points if mommy can get up and get some exercise dancing along!

To my great delight, we discovered several channels that had commercial free shows for children. Those are the only ones we watch. Otherwise it’s a horrifying amount of kid crack in the form of mostly awful plastic toys.

Here is my top ten list of shows that I believe are positive, educational, kind and joyful and a nice way to share some downtime with your children.

1. The Wiggles – Oh, I thought it was silly at first, but then I was sold. And M. loved them at 1 year old. They’re like nursery school teachers, upbeat, always smiling and full of energy and bright colors. I even got some mommy thrills and grew overly fond of Anthony (the blue Wiggle). Maybe it was hormones. While I do like Sam (the yellow Wiggle who took over for Greg), I do not like the shows they’ve done since Sam joined. With Greg as yellow Wiggle, the songs were original and fabulous, catchy, interesting and so much fun. Now, the new shows seem to be all public domain nursery rhymes and they’re using way too much in the way of computer generated backgrounds. I can’t watch those. So, look for the shows with Greg.  Plenty of opportunity to get up and move.
PBSkids/Sprout in USA

2. Peep And The Big Wide World – The greatest show EVER! Perfect for little ones and there always seems to be something that would catch us just right and make us laugh too. In one show Peep says, “Every day I see something new that amazes me.” I try to live like this. Check here for listings. If it’s hard to find, there are dvd’s.

3. Dinosaur Train – Super smart. The greatest thing is that, even though there is clearly questionable science in the stories (like the time travel), there is a reckoning at the end of each mini-episode where Dr. Scott the paleontologist explains just what the science actually is. Something for everyone. There are lessons about being adopted and what makes a family, about being oneself and being proud of it. And our daughter was saying the correct names of all these dinosaurs at 2.
PBS kids

4. Curious George – Just a classic and one of our daughters favorites. Good, clean, monkey fun. And I will admit that I have a weird crush on The Man with the Yellow Hat. I honestly don’t know why.
PBS kids

5. Backyardigans - This one took me totally by surprise. What I love about it is that it’s musically interesting and engaging. The characters are friends who have imagination adventures together and each episode uses music to enhance the theme. They’re like mini musicals with the characters singing and dancing through the adventure. We often get our dance on with this one too.
NickJr

6. Tinga Tinga Tales – This is a new one that’s gorgeous. They’re 19 minute episodes and each tells a story based on an African folk tale. The art/animation is really beautiful and unique. I love their website too. http://www.tingatingatales.com/

7. Little Einsteins – I believe this show is the antidote to shows like Dora, the Explorer. It’s basically the same formula except that they use classical music and artists and each show incorporates lessons about music. After we’ve watched one of these, M. will be humming Mozart or whoever we just heard and the songs she makes up for hours after are in the same vein. We love it.
Disney Channel

8. Franklin – “Hey, it’s Franklin…” Great stories with real, valuable lessons. They’re very much like a story book come to life.
NickJr

9. Sammy’s Story Shop – This is the only one that has commercials, but it’s worth the effort to skip them.  It’s very much like being read to as each episode is a collection of unique stories from books. What I love about it is that the art is completely varied and interesting. Some of them are stills and the art and narration make them great. I like to have her watch shows like this where the motion, rhythms etc, are unlike most of the other shows. Sometimes it’s an illustrated poem.
Qubo (Commercials!)

10. Handy Manny – It took until this year (at 3 1/2) for this one to come onto her radar, but now it’s all about Handy Manny around here. I realized this weekend that I really want to live in Sheetrock Hills. Everyone takes care of one another and I’d know who to call when I needed anything fixed or built!
Disney Channel

Honorable Mention: Happy Monster Band – This is just a “filler” between shows. My husband and daughter discovered it together. Each ‘episode’ takes the monsters to another place in the world where they discover something about themselves and sing a fun song. Full throttle song and dance opportunity.
Disney Channel

Ultimately, we still want to eliminate most if not all television for all our sakes. But I can honestly say that I believe her experiences with television have been good. I like it that she watches a show and then has to spend time acting it out and incorporating it into her imagination play. I think that’s something to encourage, in fact, as a way to process the new information and stimulation and to ground it in 3D reality.

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25 Responses to Top Ten Shows Worthy Of Screen Time
  1. Amy
    March 8, 2011 | 7:53 AM

    I haven’t seen most of those shows, but I’ll keep them in mind for when my son is older. I like that you set ground rules about screen time, particularly the one about commercials. I hardly ever watch commercial TV anymore, and when I do, I realize how very “polluting” commercials are, even to MY brain. Thanks for making this list!

    • treepeters
      March 17, 2011 | 7:36 PM

      I’m glad you like my list. I’m so surprised to feel that there is anything redeeming and even worthwile about television for my child.
      maybe they’re trying harder these days.

  2. Kristin @ Intrepid Murmurings
    March 8, 2011 | 9:46 AM

    Hey, great list! We actually haven’t seen many of these, but I definitely want to check out a few (especially Franklin and Peep, I think my girls would love those!). I also believe on setting limits/ground rules about TV — it works well for us!

    • treepeters
      March 17, 2011 | 7:37 PM

      I’m loving having other parents to process these decisions with. Too many of our friends in “real life” don’t even think about it and wouldn’t understand why we think twice about screen time.
      Thanks for commenting!

  3. Laura
    March 8, 2011 | 12:16 PM

    Yes, I wanted no TV as well, but unfortunately my husband likes TV so he wasn’t okay with getting rid of it, and when it is there, it is hard not to use it. It has become a nice time for me to take a break. Thanks for the great ideas for shows. I’ll be on the lookout for them.

    • treepeters
      March 17, 2011 | 7:38 PM

      There really are plenty of good choices with social or educational value and no commercials. Thank goodness because I’d go crazy watching the same things with her all the time.

  4. Lori/ Beneath the Rowan Tree
    March 8, 2011 | 7:38 PM

    Love it! We jave almost the same principles for our now 5.5 year old~ it is getting more difficult to avoid commercial tv as she outgrows treehouse tv (Canada).

    We still love Pocoyo!
    Big & Small
    Max & Ruby (although I wonder where the parents are LOL)

    Curious George always bugs me because his behaviour is so naughty and without natural consequence LOL

    Lori
    http://www.beneaththerowantree.com
    COme & Join the Playdate!

    • treepeters
      March 17, 2011 | 7:41 PM

      We just saw Pocoyo for the first time. We did like it too. It was just after our Peep.
      Max and Ruby was her favorite for a short time. We got it from the library once and it had the option to watch in French. She LOVED it!! Especially the theme song in French, which was just “Max and Ruby, Ruby and Max” with a French accent.
      I’ve wondered about the parents too.
      And Curious George… things do seem to turn out well no matter what. Since we watch with her, we usually discuss that. And we love how the little intermission parts make a point of saying that “George is monkey, so he does things you can’t do”…
      LOL

  5. Dionna @ Code Name: Mama
    March 8, 2011 | 7:50 PM

    I’ve been pretty anti-TV, but that’s also because Kieran is TV-CRAZY. Once it’s on, he has a fit if it gets turned off. He asks for it all.the.time., so I have to set some pretty firm limits. That being said, the only things he watches (other than the occasional movie) is Sesame Street clips on YouTube, and the occasional Dora (he’s seen several of the first season on Netflix). We’ve also done the free episodes of Dinosaur Train on PBS.org – I wish they had more available!

    • treepeters
      March 17, 2011 | 7:42 PM

      Sesame Street works for us too. Dino love coming your way.

  6. Kim
    March 8, 2011 | 8:40 PM

    We love The Backyardigans too! My only problem is that the songs are good and get stuck in my head. :)

    • treepeters
      March 17, 2011 | 7:42 PM

      Oh yeah. But it’s way better than the crappy songs that can get stuck in your head!

  7. Erica @ ChildOrganics
    March 9, 2011 | 8:10 AM

    I read “The Plug in Drug” when my oldest was younger, so I was sure I needed to make some changes in our TV viewing habits. My husband works for the cable company, so we have every channel imaginable, that really doesn’t help matters! It’s a constant struggle for balance, isn’t it? Thanks for your article. We’re Dinosaur Train fans here too!

    • treepeters
      March 17, 2011 | 7:44 PM

      Oh yes, we’re finding we need to be constantly vigilant that we don’t start relying on it. Especially as she’s older now and we could really leave her plugged in alone if we wanted to. Which we don’t.

  8. Brittany@Mama's Felt Cafe
    March 9, 2011 | 10:21 AM

    Great list! I like the mix of older shows like Franklin and Curious George with newer show. I try not to have so much TV time at our house but my son is flat out obsessed with Barney.

    • treepeters
      March 17, 2011 | 7:44 PM

      Oh, we’ve managed to keep Barney from her consciousness so far. My husband would lose his mind I think.
      thanks for visiting.

  9. kim
    March 9, 2011 | 3:24 PM

    Thanks for this list. I feel so guilty about tv time with dd. She LOVES mickey mouse clubhouse. LOVES IT. she asks to have it on very often and I almost always oblidge. Also Special Agent OSO on disney. She rarely watches it alone and incorporates the stories into her play. If Mickey is drawing, she wants to draw, or vice versa. A lot of times she just likes to have it on in the background. She wants it on, then plays, only listening to it. We have ground rules about substance and never watch any of “our” shows while she is awake, but we dont limit quantity directly. I do try to keep her attention with other activities. I feel that if there is nothing better to do, then she’ll watch tv – so i strive to find the ‘something better’. in nice weather we are outside all day.

    thanks for your list and views :)

    • treepeters
      March 17, 2011 | 7:47 PM

      Wow, I feel like I could have written your whole comment.
      Sometimes I have to dig deep to suggest another activity to engage her because she will almost certainly prefer to DO something if I can stimulate her.
      And she can be out digging in the dirt all day too. That’s partly why I still feel we’re doing okay with it.
      Mickey Mouse Club House gets on my nerves, but luckily her dad digs it.
      Thanks for commenting.

  10. Jana
    March 10, 2011 | 9:34 AM

    what about Fraggle Rock?! : )

    • treepeters
      March 17, 2011 | 7:48 PM

      I’ve heard such good things about it, but we haven’t gone there yet.
      I heard Jim Henson say it was the happiest experience of his life. Something like that.
      I figure it must be good.

  11. Lauren @ Hobo Mama
    March 11, 2011 | 1:37 PM

    We kept TV to a minimum until 2 years old, but now Mikko lurves it. Fortunately, we’re able to Tivo his shows and skip all the commercials, but I really appreciate what you’re saying about shows that don’t have ads in the middle of the show. We tried watching one that did, and it was so obnoxious, having to fast forward every couple minutes. I think they got 5 commercial breaks into a half-hour kids’ show — ugh! I ignore that show now whenever Tivo tapes it for us.

    Anyway, we’re watching Curious George right now (like, right this minute!) — I’m really impressed that it teaches simple science and math concepts — and we like Wiggles & Dinosaur Train. I will politely disagree with Lori that George is naughty — I think he’s just, you know, a monkey! He has to work through the consequences of his behavior in every episode. And I love the warm relationship he has with The Man With the Yellow Hat (and, yes, he’s pretty hunky…).

    We’re also big fans right now of Word World, which is an easy and fun reading/spelling lesson. I haven’t heard of all the ones you’ve listed, so I’ll have some more to look for as his tastes change! We’ve heard some of the Backyardigans songs online, and I’ve been surprised how catchy and intricate they are. Mikko loves singing them all day!

    What I’m wondering is what we do when we have our second baby. How do we limit the baby’s screen time while not being a huge stickler with Mikko, who’ll be 4? TV only during naptimes or something? I’m not anti-TV (obviously); Sam and I love it for ourselves and have since we were kids, so I didn’t want to set it up as some sort of no-no. But I have to be careful to balance out screen time with active and outdoor time (for myself, too!).

    • treepeters
      March 17, 2011 | 9:14 PM

      Oh yes, the balance…
      I’d be wondering what to do with a new baby too. I honestly don’t think the baby will be damaged in any way by small amounts of “second hand t.v.”. Especially since the shows Mikko is watching have reasonably gentle sounds and music.
      We had a great time with Word World too for a while. It really fed her hunger for letters and words.
      I’m glad you see what I see in “The Man..”

  12. Terri
    March 14, 2011 | 8:09 PM

    I love the criteria you used to select the shows and how you would watch them.

    We don’t have a TV in our house as there is really next to nothing positive to watch on the selection that is piped to us in the Caribbean and we have to pay a lot for the privilege of viewing trash! So we rely on you tube and DVD’S. The only show my kids watch right now is Signing Time which is sooooo wonderful. We love signing :-)

    But the shows you mentioned sound interesting and I’m wondering if any of them are available online?

    • treepeters
      March 17, 2011 | 9:16 PM

      It’s amazing what you can do with computers now.
      I’m going to check out Signing time. That sounds great.
      I hope you find some of these other shows online too.
      Usually they have at least a couple of them on their websites. I’m pretty sure Dinosaur Train does.
      Thanks for visiting and commenting!

  13. Wolfmother
    March 21, 2011 | 11:56 AM

    Great advice!I like your ground rules for watching television. I live by the quote “everything in moderation’ as it is important to find balance in our lives. We watch tv sometimes, and that is ok but we’re not in front of it all the time. The same will be for our son. Currently he enjoys the theme song to The Big Bang Theory and will pause in his play to dance. Apart from that, he has shown no interest which is fine with me too.

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