Welcome to the March Carnival of Natural Parenting: Natural Parenting Top 10 Lists
This post was written for inclusion in the monthly Carnival of Natural Parenting hosted by Code Name: Mama and Hobo Mama. This month our participants have shared Top 10 lists on a wide variety of aspects of attachment parenting and natural living. Please read to the end to find a list of links to the other carnival participants.
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We fully intended on being a non-television viewing family once our daughter was born. We made it through nearly 3 months. I didn’t want any “noise” in her world. I wanted to be truly with her 100% while I fed her and cared for her. I was unprepared for the reality of a newborn schedule, especially combined with my old mommy energy level.
The first time we indulged was very, very late one night and it was The Daily Show. I have never laughed so hard at that show. I enjoyed every moment, every joke, every bit of feeling connected to the world of smart grown-ups. So, that was her first television exposure. And we kept it to that, just enough to keep us awake and give us a few laughs, for a long time.
Eventually, we found a few shows that we really liked and that she responded to very well. We developed a standard and criteria for choosing what we would watch with her.
1. She would never, ever watch commercials. Even as an infant we didn’t want that in her world. We never believed she wasn’t listening or didn’t understand anyway.
2. She would never be left alone in front of the television. We always made sure to be there with her and “participate” with her. If there was music, we sang or danced with it. We laughed together…
3. We paid attention to the balance of “screen time” and outdoor time, nature time and interactive play, art and music. She was always read to and books are still her favorite things.
4. We look for shows that have some thing of quality to offer. What our daughter has gotten out of these shows is exposure to many different kinds of music, rhythms, art, storytelling and now that she’s old enough to understand the relationships between the friends, she’s learning about social interaction.
5. Bonus points if mommy can get up and get some exercise dancing along!
To my great delight, we discovered several channels that had commercial free shows for children. Those are the only ones we watch. Otherwise it’s a horrifying amount of kid crack in the form of mostly awful plastic toys.
Here is my top ten list of shows that I believe are positive, educational, kind and joyful and a nice way to share some downtime with your children.
1. The Wiggles – Oh, I thought it was silly at first, but then I was sold. And M. loved them at 1 year old. They’re like nursery school teachers, upbeat, always smiling and full of energy and bright colors. I even got some mommy thrills and grew overly fond of Anthony (the blue Wiggle). Maybe it was hormones. While I do like Sam (the yellow Wiggle who took over for Greg), I do not like the shows they’ve done since Sam joined. With Greg as yellow Wiggle, the songs were original and fabulous, catchy, interesting and so much fun. Now, the new shows seem to be all public domain nursery rhymes and they’re using way too much in the way of computer generated backgrounds. I can’t watch those. So, look for the shows with Greg. Plenty of opportunity to get up and move.
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2. Peep And The Big Wide World – The greatest show EVER! Perfect for little ones and there always seems to be something that would catch us just right and make us laugh too. In one show Peep says, “Every day I see something new that amazes me.” I try to live like this. Check here for listings. If it’s hard to find, there are dvd’s.
3. Dinosaur Train – Super smart. The greatest thing is that, even though there is clearly questionable science in the stories (like the time travel), there is a reckoning at the end of each mini-episode where Dr. Scott the paleontologist explains just what the science actually is. Something for everyone. There are lessons about being adopted and what makes a family, about being oneself and being proud of it. And our daughter was saying the correct names of all these dinosaurs at 2.
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4. Curious George – Just a classic and one of our daughters favorites. Good, clean, monkey fun. And I will admit that I have a weird crush on The Man with the Yellow Hat. I honestly don’t know why.
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5. Backyardigans - This one took me totally by surprise. What I love about it is that it’s musically interesting and engaging. The characters are friends who have imagination adventures together and each episode uses music to enhance the theme. They’re like mini musicals with the characters singing and dancing through the adventure. We often get our dance on with this one too.
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6. Tinga Tinga Tales – This is a new one that’s gorgeous. They’re 19 minute episodes and each tells a story based on an African folk tale. The art/animation is really beautiful and unique. I love their website too. http://www.tingatingatales.com/
7. Little Einsteins – I believe this show is the antidote to shows like Dora, the Explorer. It’s basically the same formula except that they use classical music and artists and each show incorporates lessons about music. After we’ve watched one of these, M. will be humming Mozart or whoever we just heard and the songs she makes up for hours after are in the same vein. We love it.
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8. Franklin – “Hey, it’s Franklin…” Great stories with real, valuable lessons. They’re very much like a story book come to life.
NickJr
9. Sammy’s Story Shop – This is the only one that has commercials, but it’s worth the effort to skip them. It’s very much like being read to as each episode is a collection of unique stories from books. What I love about it is that the art is completely varied and interesting. Some of them are stills and the art and narration make them great. I like to have her watch shows like this where the motion, rhythms etc, are unlike most of the other shows. Sometimes it’s an illustrated poem.
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10. Handy Manny – It took until this year (at 3 1/2) for this one to come onto her radar, but now it’s all about Handy Manny around here. I realized this weekend that I really want to live in Sheetrock Hills. Everyone takes care of one another and I’d know who to call when I needed anything fixed or built!
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Honorable Mention: Happy Monster Band – This is just a “filler” between shows. My husband and daughter discovered it together. Each ‘episode’ takes the monsters to another place in the world where they discover something about themselves and sing a fun song. Full throttle song and dance opportunity.
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Ultimately, we still want to eliminate most if not all television for all our sakes. But I can honestly say that I believe her experiences with television have been good. I like it that she watches a show and then has to spend time acting it out and incorporating it into her imagination play. I think that’s something to encourage, in fact, as a way to process the new information and stimulation and to ground it in 3D reality.
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(This list will be live and updated by afternoon March 8 with all the carnival links.)
- Attachment Parenting in the NICU — Erica at ChildOrganics shares some strategies to help you parent naturally in some unnatural circumstances.
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- Choosing to Breastfeed — From selfishness to self-giving, CatholicMommy at Working to be Worthy lists reasons why breast is best for her and her family.
- Ten Things I Wish I Knew About Before Little Man — In this reflective post, The ArstyMama discusses ten things she wishes she knew more about before the birth of her son, Little Man.
- 10 Things That Helped Me Become a Natural Mama — The Accidental Natural Mama counts down ten things that helped her find her moderately crunchy inner mama self.
- Top 10 Reasons to Breastfeed Your Toddler — Extended breast-feeder Kate Wicker of Momopoly makes her own top 10 list for why she loves nursing her 2-year-old.
- Top 10 Tips on Authentic Grandparenting — Mamapoekie of Authentic Parenting offers a list of tips to make the grandparent-parent-child relationship flow smoothly.
- Top Ten “Dad” Things — Liam at In The Now talks about his favourite ways to spend time with his children.
- Top 10 Natural Strategies for Conception (aka How to Get Pregnant!) — Despite facing plenty of health issues, Jessica Claire at Crunchy-Chewy Mama found her way to two first-try pregnancies thanks to these natural strategies.
- Top Ten Reasons Why Home Birth Rocks — Lucy at Dreaming Aloud shares her passion for birthing at home – the natural place for natural birth.
- Top 10 reasons why cloth nappies are fun — Tat at Cloth Nappies Are Fun shows how using cloth nappies can brighten up your day.
- Top Ten Ways to Be Present With Family — Amy at Innate Wholeness shares how to make the most of parenting and family life through being present.
- Top 10 Things In My Arsenal of Kitchen Witchy Mama Tricks. — Joni Rae at Tales of A Kitchen Witch shares with us the simple things she would never want to be missing from her cupboards.
- Top 10 ways I’m not very good at natural parenting (and why I keep trying anyway) — Jenny at Babyfingers shares the ways she is imperfect as a natural parent, and why she embraces natural parenting anyway.
- Top 10 Ways to Know You Are a Natural Parent — So what makes us “natural parents,” anyway? A lighthearted look at the Top 10 Ways to Know You Are a Natural Parent by the editors and readers of Natural Parents Network.
- The Top 10 Things Every Natural Household (with children) Should Have — Amanda at Let’s Take the Metro shares a list of the most common natural products and remedies she uses for health and cleaning.
- Top 10 books for raising loving, spiritual children — In her ‘food for the soul’ post, Mrs Green from Little Green Blog shares her favourite spiritual books. No matter what religion you practise, there’s something for everyone!
- Top 10 Things No One Told Me About Natural Parenting — Adrienne at Mommying My Way explains that the best things about natural parenting are things she never expected.
- Top 10 Flower Essences for Families — Kim of Nature Baby Bloggings lists her pick of the top ten flower essence which can help ease families through the ups and downs of life.
- My Top Ten Parenting Tools — Amyables at Toddler In Tow names the top ten tools that have been helpful to her while learning to parent respectfully and successfully.
- Ten Ways Families Can Enjoy Nature (for free!) — Spring is nearly in the air, and Jenn at Monkey Butt Junction is dreaming of the fun and frugal ways that her family is going to get out and enjoy nature this summer.
- 10 Reasons We Unschool — Patti at Jazzy Mama explains why unschooling is the right choice for her family.
- Must Read: Natural Parenting Top Ten — Amy at Anktangle wants you to do a little reading! She shares her top ten favorite books to help parents prepare for pregnancy, birth, and parenting.
- Top 10 Breastfeeding Misconceptions — Sheila at A Gift Universe examines ten reasons women give for why they didn’t breastfeed as long as they wanted, and shows how these obstacles can be overcome.
- Ten Reasons to Plan a Home Birth — Since a home birth can be an incredibly empowering experience, Leslie at Lights and Letters outlines ten reasons why you should plan to have your baby at home.
- Top Ten Books for Birth, Breastfeeding and Parenting — Megan at Just Me(gan) writes about the ten books that have helped her the most in her natural parenting journey.
- A Top Ten Letter To Me… — Kat at Loving {Almost} Every Moment writes herself a letter of reflections and bits of wisdom she would have liked to know as a new mama.
- Top Ten Mama Necessities Money Can’t Buy — Buying baby gear is fun, but Emily at Crunchy(ish) Mama knows real parenting must-haves can’t be bought in stores (or even on Amazon).
- Top 10 Books for a Natural Mum — Isil at Smiling like Sunshine talks about her Top 10 Books for a Natural Mum.
- Ten Great Spring Activities To Do With Preschoolers — Kellie at Our Mindful Life and her family have come up with a great list of activities to do together this spring.
- 10 Ways to Reuse Yogurt Containers — Acacia at Fingerpaint & Superheroes keeps the stacks of yogurt containers out of her recycling bin by reusing them in both practical and creative ways.
- Top Ten Ways To Have a Harmonious Home — Jennifer at Hybrid Rasta Mama shares her natural parenting-inspired methods for maintaining a harmonious daily life with her toddler.
- 10 Natural Baby Items I Love — Charise at I Thought I Knew Mama shares product ideas to support your natural parenting.
- The Pandas’ Top Five Crunch-osophies — Top five crunchy philosophies, as employed at the Panda Residence by Ana at Pandamoly.
- Top 10 Reasons to Leave Your Son Intact — Mandy at Living Peacefully with Children has shared 10 reasons why you should leave your newborn son intact.
- Ten things everyone should know about unassisted homebirth — Olivia at Write About Birth shares practical tips for women considering an unassisted homebirth and debunks some common myths
- 10 Most Popular Ways To Treat Cloth Diaper Stains — Chante at My Natural Motherhood Journey gives ten easy tips to make your diapers like new.
- 10 Lessons in 1 Year — Abbie at Farmer’s Daughter shares 10 parenting lessons that she has learned throughout her first year of motherhood.
- Top 10 Ways to Get Breastfeeding Off To a Good Start — Sheryl at Little Snowflakes shares 10 effective ways to ensure breastfeeding gets off to a good start.
- Top 10 Ways to Avoid a Time-Out — If you are uncomfortable using time-outs in an attempt to control your child’s behavior, try one of these gentler alternatives. Dionna at Code Name: Mama shares her Top 10 Ways to Avoid a Time-Out.
- My Top 10 Parenting Scriptures — Dulce de leche is learning to integrate faith and parenting. Whether it is breastfeeding, babywearing, comforting her children, or gentle discipline, she finds that the Bible has beautiful passages to encourage her on her journey.
- Natural Cleaning Ideas – Top 10 — Laura at Laura’s Blog lists the ways she keeps her house clean and clear of chemicals.
- My Top Ten (plus two) Life Altering and Growth Inspiring Books — A top ten list of books from MJ at Wander Wonder Discover that changed her life as an individual, a parent, and an earth dweller.
- Top 10 Ways to Use Natural Parenting for Children with Special Needs — Danielle at Mommy Makes Cents feeds the needs of her family and special needs child through the use of Natural Parenting.
- Ten Fundamentals — Seonaid at The Practical Dilettante gets philosophical with a list of the fundamentals that drive her natural parenting.
- 10 reasons why I chose breast over bottles — Becky at Old New Legacy writes a quick list of why she chose breast over bottles.
- Top Ten Natural Tools for the Work of Play — Lori at Beneath the Rowan Tree offers insight into 10 natural toys that will span the early years (and save you money).
- 10 differences between pregnancy and parenting in Japan and the US — Megan at Ichigo Means Strawberry gives her impressions about differences in pregnancy and parenting in Japan and the US.
- Natural Parenting Benny & Bex Style — Pecky at Benny and Bex explains why Natural Parenting principles work best for her boys.
- Top 10 Reasons to Co-Sleep — 10 practical, emotional, and completely selfish reasons to co-sleep and share a family bed from Lily, aka Witch Mom.
- My Top Ten New Mommy Moments — Melissa at The New Mommy Files recounts the ten most memorable moments of her daughter’s first year.
- Top Ten Things Every Breastfeeding Mother Needs to Know — Kristen at Adventures in Mommyhood believes knowledge is power and wants all moms to be well informed.
- Top 10 Nursing Positions / Situations — Momma Jorje uses her 5½ years of nursing experience to share her Top 10 Nursing Positions/Situations. She includes some adorable photos of her youngest daughter at the breast.
- Ten Top Ways to Connect Kids with Nature — Terri from Child at the Nature Isle offers 10 ways to immerse ourselves in the natural world and develop a love affair with the Earth.
- Top 10 Slacker Ways to Natural Parent — Guavalicious is happy to show you how to parent naturally the slacker way.
- Simply what it looks like — Andrea!!! from Ella-Bean & Co. offers a glimpse into natural parenting through the eyes of mama and babe.
- Top Ten Reasons Why Natural Parenting Dads Are So Attractive — Nada at miniMOMist sure digs her husband, but it’s not just his good looks — it’s his parenting!
- 10 Family Systems and Routines That Work for Us — See what routines, organizational systems, and parenting approaches work for Kristin at Intrepid Murmurings to help avoid conflict and maintain sanity in a family with three young children.
- Top 10 reasons to choose midwifery care — Lauren at Hobo Mama lists the features that drew her to midwives’ care for pregnancy and birth.
- 10 Ways to Cloth Diaper on a Budget — Michelle at The Parent Vortex shares her best thrifty cloth diapering tips.
- Ten Reasons it Felt Sew Good To Make My Own Play Food — Brittany at Mama’s Felt Cafe lists her 10 (OK, 11) favorite reasons to grab a needle and start sewing your own felt play toys.
- Top10 Ways to Spark Interest, Learn, and Have Fun With Everyday Tasks! — Bethy at Bounce Me to the Moon gives you her top 10 ways of incorporating fun and lessons into everyday tasks and chores.
- Postpartum Gift Ideas — Alicia at I Found My Feet suggests a top 10 list of gifts for mother’s after giving birth.
- My Top Ten Shows Worthy Of Screen Time — Tree at Mom Grooves shares her top ten list of shows that she believes are positive, educational, kind, joyful, and a nice way to share some downtime with your children.
- The Top 10 Ways to Succeed as an Working Attachment Parent — That Mama Gretchen shares tried and true ways to succeed with attachment parenting even when working away from home during the day.
- Top Ten Books for Natural Parenting — Pregnancy, herbs, cooking, and healthcare the ten books Asha at Meta Mom the most.
- Preparing for a Hospital VBAC: My Top 10 — Thomasin at Propson Palingenesis shares 10 ways she’s preparing for her upcoming hospital VBAC.
- Top Ten New Mom Survival Tools — Wolfmother shares her most beloved motherhood survival tools at Fabulous Mama Chronicles.
- Top 10 Montessori Principles for Natural Learning — Deb Chitwood at Living Montessori Now gives her top 10 list of Montessori principles parents can use to encourage their children s natural learning.
- Going Granola — Tashmica from The Mother Flippin’ Blog describes the 10 ways that natural parenting sneaked up on her. She never expected to go all granola on the world.
- Step Away From the Amazon List — Stefanie at Very, Very Fine wishes she hadn’t bought so much useless stuff.



I haven’t seen most of those shows, but I’ll keep them in mind for when my son is older. I like that you set ground rules about screen time, particularly the one about commercials. I hardly ever watch commercial TV anymore, and when I do, I realize how very “polluting” commercials are, even to MY brain. Thanks for making this list!
I’m glad you like my list. I’m so surprised to feel that there is anything redeeming and even worthwile about television for my child.
maybe they’re trying harder these days.
Hey, great list! We actually haven’t seen many of these, but I definitely want to check out a few (especially Franklin and Peep, I think my girls would love those!). I also believe on setting limits/ground rules about TV — it works well for us!
I’m loving having other parents to process these decisions with. Too many of our friends in “real life” don’t even think about it and wouldn’t understand why we think twice about screen time.
Thanks for commenting!
Yes, I wanted no TV as well, but unfortunately my husband likes TV so he wasn’t okay with getting rid of it, and when it is there, it is hard not to use it. It has become a nice time for me to take a break. Thanks for the great ideas for shows. I’ll be on the lookout for them.
There really are plenty of good choices with social or educational value and no commercials. Thank goodness because I’d go crazy watching the same things with her all the time.
Love it! We jave almost the same principles for our now 5.5 year old~ it is getting more difficult to avoid commercial tv as she outgrows treehouse tv (Canada).
We still love Pocoyo!
Big & Small
Max & Ruby (although I wonder where the parents are LOL)
Curious George always bugs me because his behaviour is so naughty and without natural consequence LOL
Lori
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We just saw Pocoyo for the first time. We did like it too. It was just after our Peep.
Max and Ruby was her favorite for a short time. We got it from the library once and it had the option to watch in French. She LOVED it!! Especially the theme song in French, which was just “Max and Ruby, Ruby and Max” with a French accent.
I’ve wondered about the parents too.
And Curious George… things do seem to turn out well no matter what. Since we watch with her, we usually discuss that. And we love how the little intermission parts make a point of saying that “George is monkey, so he does things you can’t do”…
LOL
I’ve been pretty anti-TV, but that’s also because Kieran is TV-CRAZY. Once it’s on, he has a fit if it gets turned off. He asks for it all.the.time., so I have to set some pretty firm limits. That being said, the only things he watches (other than the occasional movie) is Sesame Street clips on YouTube, and the occasional Dora (he’s seen several of the first season on Netflix). We’ve also done the free episodes of Dinosaur Train on PBS.org – I wish they had more available!
Sesame Street works for us too. Dino love coming your way.
We love The Backyardigans too! My only problem is that the songs are good and get stuck in my head.
Oh yeah. But it’s way better than the crappy songs that can get stuck in your head!
I read “The Plug in Drug” when my oldest was younger, so I was sure I needed to make some changes in our TV viewing habits. My husband works for the cable company, so we have every channel imaginable, that really doesn’t help matters! It’s a constant struggle for balance, isn’t it? Thanks for your article. We’re Dinosaur Train fans here too!
Oh yes, we’re finding we need to be constantly vigilant that we don’t start relying on it. Especially as she’s older now and we could really leave her plugged in alone if we wanted to. Which we don’t.
Great list! I like the mix of older shows like Franklin and Curious George with newer show. I try not to have so much TV time at our house but my son is flat out obsessed with Barney.
Oh, we’ve managed to keep Barney from her consciousness so far. My husband would lose his mind I think.
thanks for visiting.
Thanks for this list. I feel so guilty about tv time with dd. She LOVES mickey mouse clubhouse. LOVES IT. she asks to have it on very often and I almost always oblidge. Also Special Agent OSO on disney. She rarely watches it alone and incorporates the stories into her play. If Mickey is drawing, she wants to draw, or vice versa. A lot of times she just likes to have it on in the background. She wants it on, then plays, only listening to it. We have ground rules about substance and never watch any of “our” shows while she is awake, but we dont limit quantity directly. I do try to keep her attention with other activities. I feel that if there is nothing better to do, then she’ll watch tv – so i strive to find the ‘something better’. in nice weather we are outside all day.
thanks for your list and views
Wow, I feel like I could have written your whole comment.
Sometimes I have to dig deep to suggest another activity to engage her because she will almost certainly prefer to DO something if I can stimulate her.
And she can be out digging in the dirt all day too. That’s partly why I still feel we’re doing okay with it.
Mickey Mouse Club House gets on my nerves, but luckily her dad digs it.
Thanks for commenting.
what about Fraggle Rock?! : )
I’ve heard such good things about it, but we haven’t gone there yet.
I heard Jim Henson say it was the happiest experience of his life. Something like that.
I figure it must be good.
We kept TV to a minimum until 2 years old, but now Mikko lurves it. Fortunately, we’re able to Tivo his shows and skip all the commercials, but I really appreciate what you’re saying about shows that don’t have ads in the middle of the show. We tried watching one that did, and it was so obnoxious, having to fast forward every couple minutes. I think they got 5 commercial breaks into a half-hour kids’ show — ugh! I ignore that show now whenever Tivo tapes it for us.
Anyway, we’re watching Curious George right now (like, right this minute!) — I’m really impressed that it teaches simple science and math concepts — and we like Wiggles & Dinosaur Train. I will politely disagree with Lori that George is naughty — I think he’s just, you know, a monkey! He has to work through the consequences of his behavior in every episode. And I love the warm relationship he has with The Man With the Yellow Hat (and, yes, he’s pretty hunky…).
We’re also big fans right now of Word World, which is an easy and fun reading/spelling lesson. I haven’t heard of all the ones you’ve listed, so I’ll have some more to look for as his tastes change! We’ve heard some of the Backyardigans songs online, and I’ve been surprised how catchy and intricate they are. Mikko loves singing them all day!
What I’m wondering is what we do when we have our second baby. How do we limit the baby’s screen time while not being a huge stickler with Mikko, who’ll be 4? TV only during naptimes or something? I’m not anti-TV (obviously); Sam and I love it for ourselves and have since we were kids, so I didn’t want to set it up as some sort of no-no. But I have to be careful to balance out screen time with active and outdoor time (for myself, too!).
Oh yes, the balance…
I’d be wondering what to do with a new baby too. I honestly don’t think the baby will be damaged in any way by small amounts of “second hand t.v.”. Especially since the shows Mikko is watching have reasonably gentle sounds and music.
We had a great time with Word World too for a while. It really fed her hunger for letters and words.
I’m glad you see what I see in “The Man..”
I love the criteria you used to select the shows and how you would watch them.
We don’t have a TV in our house as there is really next to nothing positive to watch on the selection that is piped to us in the Caribbean and we have to pay a lot for the privilege of viewing trash! So we rely on you tube and DVD’S. The only show my kids watch right now is Signing Time which is sooooo wonderful. We love signing
But the shows you mentioned sound interesting and I’m wondering if any of them are available online?
It’s amazing what you can do with computers now.
I’m going to check out Signing time. That sounds great.
I hope you find some of these other shows online too.
Usually they have at least a couple of them on their websites. I’m pretty sure Dinosaur Train does.
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Great advice!I like your ground rules for watching television. I live by the quote “everything in moderation’ as it is important to find balance in our lives. We watch tv sometimes, and that is ok but we’re not in front of it all the time. The same will be for our son. Currently he enjoys the theme song to The Big Bang Theory and will pause in his play to dance. Apart from that, he has shown no interest which is fine with me too.